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		<title>By: Karin</title>
		<link>http://heatherivester.com/2006/02/24/flylady-friday-the-shoe-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-947</link>
		<dc:creator>Karin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Apr 2006 20:25:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just found this log by accident. :D

I&#039;m strictly &#039;no-shoe&#039;. I tried the shoe thing and felt so uncomfortable. I keep having to look down to make sure I&#039;m not stepping on cats, toys, etc.
I don&#039;t feel &#039;professional&#039; in my shoes at all. I feel very insecure with my shoes on. As if I was halfway the store and rushed back because I&#039;d forgotten something, or I urgently have to go somewhere else... I tend to not start things because having my shoes on makes me feel I have only a little time before I need to &#039;go&#039;. I keep having to consciously remind myself that I&#039;m wearing the shoes to do housework in. It feels so *wrong*.
When I was small, my mother would have fits if I walked into her house with my shoes on. Even when I visit her I make the kids take off their shoes and usually take off mine...
I can&#039;t concentrate with my shoes on and I feel I&#039;m &#039;dirtying&#039; the floor I just cleaned by walking around in shoes (even if they&#039;re strictly &#039;indoor&#039; shoes...)
I guess it&#039;s one of those &#039;blame it on my youth&#039; things, but I just can&#039;t bear shoes...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just found this log by accident. <img src='http://heatherivester.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I&#8217;m strictly &#8216;no-shoe&#8217;. I tried the shoe thing and felt so uncomfortable. I keep having to look down to make sure I&#8217;m not stepping on cats, toys, etc.<br />
I don&#8217;t feel &#8216;professional&#8217; in my shoes at all. I feel very insecure with my shoes on. As if I was halfway the store and rushed back because I&#8217;d forgotten something, or I urgently have to go somewhere else&#8230; I tend to not start things because having my shoes on makes me feel I have only a little time before I need to &#8216;go&#8217;. I keep having to consciously remind myself that I&#8217;m wearing the shoes to do housework in. It feels so *wrong*.<br />
When I was small, my mother would have fits if I walked into her house with my shoes on. Even when I visit her I make the kids take off their shoes and usually take off mine&#8230;<br />
I can&#8217;t concentrate with my shoes on and I feel I&#8217;m &#8216;dirtying&#8217; the floor I just cleaned by walking around in shoes (even if they&#8217;re strictly &#8216;indoor&#8217; shoes&#8230;)<br />
I guess it&#8217;s one of those &#8216;blame it on my youth&#8217; things, but I just can&#8217;t bear shoes&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Lynette</title>
		<link>http://heatherivester.com/2006/02/24/flylady-friday-the-shoe-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-485</link>
		<dc:creator>Lynette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 07 Mar 2006 17:22:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ll start with a disclaimer: I didn&#039;t join FlyLady because I have a clutter problem. Like anyone else, I have couple of closets and drawers that need attention, but since I weed out and trim down my storage and clothing annually, it nevers gets out of hand. Even before I found Flylady.net, I could usually have my home &quot;company ready&quot; in about 15 minutes. I joined Flylady to help myself develop a working cleaning schedule.

As for shoes, I think it&#039;s a lot of hogwash. I have always loved being barefoot. If I want to be comfortable in my own home, shoes are definately not the answer for me. I have yet to understand why Marla thinks everyone needs shoes on their feet to have a tidy home.

Here&#039;s a great example of why shoes aren&#039;t necessary: Last week, I was feeling pretty cruddy. I was fighting off a cold and being pretty lazy with my housework. I have been trying the shoe thing, trying to put some faith in it, and wore shoes all day Monday- Wednesday, convinced I would get off my &quot;franny&quot; and tend to my housework. Didn&#039;t work. By Thursday, my energy was returning, and I quickly got caught up on the week&#039;s cleaning in one afternoon. The process was quick and enjoyable. AND I WAS BAREFOOT all day long.

Sorry that was so long, but I felt I needed to fully explain why I do think agree that shoes are that important.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ll start with a disclaimer: I didn&#8217;t join FlyLady because I have a clutter problem. Like anyone else, I have couple of closets and drawers that need attention, but since I weed out and trim down my storage and clothing annually, it nevers gets out of hand. Even before I found Flylady.net, I could usually have my home &#8220;company ready&#8221; in about 15 minutes. I joined Flylady to help myself develop a working cleaning schedule.</p>
<p>As for shoes, I think it&#8217;s a lot of hogwash. I have always loved being barefoot. If I want to be comfortable in my own home, shoes are definately not the answer for me. I have yet to understand why Marla thinks everyone needs shoes on their feet to have a tidy home.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s a great example of why shoes aren&#8217;t necessary: Last week, I was feeling pretty cruddy. I was fighting off a cold and being pretty lazy with my housework. I have been trying the shoe thing, trying to put some faith in it, and wore shoes all day Monday- Wednesday, convinced I would get off my &#8220;franny&#8221; and tend to my housework. Didn&#8217;t work. By Thursday, my energy was returning, and I quickly got caught up on the week&#8217;s cleaning in one afternoon. The process was quick and enjoyable. AND I WAS BAREFOOT all day long.</p>
<p>Sorry that was so long, but I felt I needed to fully explain why I do think agree that shoes are that important.</p>
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		<title>By: Heather</title>
		<link>http://heatherivester.com/2006/02/24/flylady-friday-the-shoe-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-453</link>
		<dc:creator>Heather</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Mar 2006 16:41:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ha ha, Sally! Thanks for linking to Trish&#039;s &quot;Favorite Things&quot; sing-a-long. I remember reading that a few weeks ago. I can definitely relate to &quot;Fingers on keyboards and coffee for power...&quot; :wink:</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ha ha, Sally! Thanks for linking to Trish&#8217;s &#8220;Favorite Things&#8221; sing-a-long. I remember reading that a few weeks ago. I can definitely relate to &#8220;Fingers on keyboards and coffee for power&#8230;&#8221; <img src='http://heatherivester.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=':wink:' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: sally apokedak</title>
		<link>http://heatherivester.com/2006/02/24/flylady-friday-the-shoe-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-452</link>
		<dc:creator>sally apokedak</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Mar 2006 16:32:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well this will come as no surprise to anyone who knows me and I doubt if anyone in the world cares, but the second line this song on Gina Holmes&#039; blog pretty much sums me up.  http://firstnoveljourney.blogspot.com/2005/12/sing-along.html

When I get dressed the kids ask, &quot;Where are we going?&quot; 

Do I get much done during the day? Depends on your definition of the word &lt;i&gt;much&lt;/i&gt;. What does God require of us each day? I never get it done. I never love God and neighbor as I ought. And it&#039;s possible that a shower and a pair of shoes would make me more loving and giving. On the other hand I might remain selfish but in a more uptight way. =0)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well this will come as no surprise to anyone who knows me and I doubt if anyone in the world cares, but the second line this song on Gina Holmes&#8217; blog pretty much sums me up.  <a href="http://firstnoveljourney.blogspot.com/2005/12/sing-along.html" rel="nofollow">http://firstnoveljourney.blogspot.com/2005/12/sing-along.html</a></p>
<p>When I get dressed the kids ask, &#8220;Where are we going?&#8221; </p>
<p>Do I get much done during the day? Depends on your definition of the word <i>much</i>. What does God require of us each day? I never get it done. I never love God and neighbor as I ought. And it&#8217;s possible that a shower and a pair of shoes would make me more loving and giving. On the other hand I might remain selfish but in a more uptight way. =0)</p>
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		<title>By: La Shawn</title>
		<link>http://heatherivester.com/2006/02/24/flylady-friday-the-shoe-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-431</link>
		<dc:creator>La Shawn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Mar 2006 19:53:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don&#039;t wear shoes while I work, but I don&#039;t wear pajamas, either. :?

I shower and put on something comfortable - jeans and T-shirt or sweatpants, cozy socks and slippers. No makeup, although I may comb the hair. It depends.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t wear shoes while I work, but I don&#8217;t wear pajamas, either. <img src='http://heatherivester.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_confused.gif' alt=':?' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I shower and put on something comfortable &#8211; jeans and T-shirt or sweatpants, cozy socks and slippers. No makeup, although I may comb the hair. It depends.</p>
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		<title>By: Blair</title>
		<link>http://heatherivester.com/2006/02/24/flylady-friday-the-shoe-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-423</link>
		<dc:creator>Blair</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Mar 2006 00:51:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Confession time - I don&#039;t typically wear shoes in the house.  It is true that I feel more like I&#039;m &quot;at work&quot; when I have them on and it helps to get more done.  I&#039;m not sure why I don&#039;t put them on really....habit?  Maybe it was all that time in the military and being anxious to get those combat boots off each day lol.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Confession time &#8211; I don&#8217;t typically wear shoes in the house.  It is true that I feel more like I&#8217;m &#8220;at work&#8221; when I have them on and it helps to get more done.  I&#8217;m not sure why I don&#8217;t put them on really&#8230;.habit?  Maybe it was all that time in the military and being anxious to get those combat boots off each day lol.</p>
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		<title>By: Nancy</title>
		<link>http://heatherivester.com/2006/02/24/flylady-friday-the-shoe-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-409</link>
		<dc:creator>Nancy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 26 Feb 2006 14:39:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Karin pointed me to your site and I&#039;m been a fluttering flybaby for four years and I put my shoes on on Day One and can&#039;t walk around the house without them, even on Sundays, my day off. I just don&#039;t feel right if I don&#039;t.

I plan to bookmark you and link to your site on my blog. Thanks for being here.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Karin pointed me to your site and I&#8217;m been a fluttering flybaby for four years and I put my shoes on on Day One and can&#8217;t walk around the house without them, even on Sundays, my day off. I just don&#8217;t feel right if I don&#8217;t.</p>
<p>I plan to bookmark you and link to your site on my blog. Thanks for being here.</p>
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		<title>By: Deb</title>
		<link>http://heatherivester.com/2006/02/24/flylady-friday-the-shoe-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-405</link>
		<dc:creator>Deb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Feb 2006 16:38:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m late weighing in on your shoe question, but since I wear shoes 24/7 I wanted to insert another opinion. :)

Back in 1995 I had to have surgery on both feet (heel spurs), and ever since I&#039;ve had to wear shoes with inserts for support. I can&#039;t even get up in the middle of the night without having my tennis shoes by my bed to put on and wear to the bathroom! I mostly wear heavy duty tennis around the house and yard but switch to something a little nicer for going out (but with lots of support--can&#039;t do clogs with my heel bouncing up and down).

I don&#039;t know what I&#039;d do if I went to someone&#039;s house and they asked everyone to take their shoes off at the door especially on all wood floors. Wearing shoes 24/7 is just something I&#039;ve had to get used to...and it&#039;s no problem! The Lord can make anything alright if you have to do it! :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m late weighing in on your shoe question, but since I wear shoes 24/7 I wanted to insert another opinion. <img src='http://heatherivester.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Back in 1995 I had to have surgery on both feet (heel spurs), and ever since I&#8217;ve had to wear shoes with inserts for support. I can&#8217;t even get up in the middle of the night without having my tennis shoes by my bed to put on and wear to the bathroom! I mostly wear heavy duty tennis around the house and yard but switch to something a little nicer for going out (but with lots of support&#8211;can&#8217;t do clogs with my heel bouncing up and down).</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know what I&#8217;d do if I went to someone&#8217;s house and they asked everyone to take their shoes off at the door especially on all wood floors. Wearing shoes 24/7 is just something I&#8217;ve had to get used to&#8230;and it&#8217;s no problem! The Lord can make anything alright if you have to do it! <img src='http://heatherivester.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Heather</title>
		<link>http://heatherivester.com/2006/02/24/flylady-friday-the-shoe-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-403</link>
		<dc:creator>Heather</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Feb 2006 12:28:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for your comments! My husband says it looks like I&#039;ve started a shoe controversy, and that I should tell you, &quot;I didn&#039;t mean to step on anyone&#039;s toes.&quot; (ha ha)

Really -- it&#039;s just one of those things I&#039;ve been reading about for a while and wondering -- does the shoe thing really work for most people? Now I see for some people (yes) and for others (no). Interesting. I like Amanda&#039;s compromise of &quot;house shoes.&quot; (Mopping shoes -- that&#039;s funny!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for your comments! My husband says it looks like I&#8217;ve started a shoe controversy, and that I should tell you, &#8220;I didn&#8217;t mean to step on anyone&#8217;s toes.&#8221; (ha ha)</p>
<p>Really &#8212; it&#8217;s just one of those things I&#8217;ve been reading about for a while and wondering &#8212; does the shoe thing really work for most people? Now I see for some people (yes) and for others (no). Interesting. I like Amanda&#8217;s compromise of &#8220;house shoes.&#8221; (Mopping shoes &#8212; that&#8217;s funny!)</p>
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		<title>By: Curtis</title>
		<link>http://heatherivester.com/2006/02/24/flylady-friday-the-shoe-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-399</link>
		<dc:creator>Curtis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Feb 2006 22:17:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Heather, 
 We go out six days a week someplace. I am definitely a no shoes mom on Thursday -- our at home &quot;pajama&quot; day. Every other day is an up and out early day, on purpose, because otherwise we don&#039;t get as much done. But our down day is downtime. I do agree with the Fly Lady that a clean kitchen sink is the start to an organized life -- but I clean it with my shoes off.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heather,<br />
 We go out six days a week someplace. I am definitely a no shoes mom on Thursday &#8212; our at home &#8220;pajama&#8221; day. Every other day is an up and out early day, on purpose, because otherwise we don&#8217;t get as much done. But our down day is downtime. I do agree with the Fly Lady that a clean kitchen sink is the start to an organized life &#8212; but I clean it with my shoes off.</p>
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